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7:30 am
31 July 2009


mama bear

VBACtivist

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Oh dear!
I'm sure you tried everything. It must have been such a blow to not have anything happen. I know that here the docs are pretty stringent with the time after your waters are broken but I have a friend in the UK and she went for 72 hours with broken waters and antibiotics to control infection and she had a natural birth. I believe the SA doc are giving even less than 24 hours in some places. How come in SA we get even less chances with everyuthing than other countries?

It sure is frustrating.

Anyhow good luck with your search. Keep us updated of your progress.

I can't wait for my turn. Soon soon…


Luv
MB

4:36 pm
28 July 2009


mama K

Member

Pretoria

posts 5

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Hi MB

Thank you for the encourgement . It had been more than 24 hours. She told me the since I was already in labour I could not be induced so the labour was augmented. I was given an option of various types of medication to achieve this and I opted for the drip. It sounded like the best possible action because apparently one of the side effects of augmenting labour is rapture of the membranes. The drip sounded like the easist option to stop should anything get out of hand. At the time of the c-section, I still had no contraction neither had I dialated.

Regards,

4:58 pm
27 July 2009


mama bear

VBACtivist

posts 27

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hi mama K,

big welcome
good to have you here,

I'm a great believer that women can birth their babies.

Keep your faith and find positive people to be with you.

I thought I was preggos preggobut still waiting but very excited and getting all the info.


Hope you find the right team to birth with.thumbs up

Just out of curiosity how long did Dr give you to dilate after your waters broke?


Luv
MB

1:54 pm
27 July 2009


Birthdoula

Admin

South Africa

posts 29

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Hi Mama K and welcome,


Congratulations on your new pregnancy, If I've made the right calculations you hit the 18 month mark.

This is also a good mark to have a vbac. Generally doctors don't like to support under this time difference but you should be ok. There have even been a few successful vbac's with less than 18 month gaps between births.

The important thing is to have a scar that has healed well.

A midwife that is pro-vbac would provide you with better assurance too.

Your scar may feel tender as your uterus is stretching now to accomodate the baby but you can always have a check up to put your mind at ease that things are as they should be. I can recommend several pro-vabc midwives that work from Pretoria.


It's hard to fins someone who really believes in you and your body the way you do.

That is why it is so important to find people that understand and believe in the power of your body to do this.
Doctors unfortunately do not have much if any experience with vbac's so it remains something that they are wary of and don't wish to attempt. It is safer for them to just say once a caesarean always a caesarean.
There are doctors that are open to VBAC's as well as many wonderfully experienced midwives.
With regard to your dilating it is only possible to make a predition once you are in labour.
Many women on this forum as well as on the VBACSA e-list had caesareans for failure to progress and went on to having beautiful vbac's as well as hbac's. Don't give up hope or determination there.Smile

The midwives at the Femina clinic have an active birth unit in the Stork's nest and they are also very supportive.

The Femina clinic is only used as a back up should something be needed.

Also Sue King works from Pretoria, the name of the hospital escapes me right now but I think it used to be called Pretoria acedemic.
Give these midwives a call, their numbers are available in the expectant mother's guide or on my website http://www.birthing.co.za under providers-midwives.

They will answer any and all of your questions honestly and compassionately.
I believe that if there are no complications other than you having had a previous caesarean birth that you should be allowed a trial of labour after caesarean (TOLAC).

I'm glad you could ask your questions here so long and good luck.

Speak with you here soon.


Love and strength

Lia

xxx


p.s. I moved your post to here so that you have a post of your own for others to welcome you.Wink

11:11 am
27 July 2009


mama K

Member

Pretoria

posts 5

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big welcome Hi everyone..

I am yet another VBAc hopeful. I heard Lia reply to one postings that the VBAC success rate is higher after 2 years :-( I am currently 20 weeks pregnant and my daughter is 13 months. My scar has become sensitive with this pregnancy and I wonder if that decreases my chances of a vbac attempt.

My previous gynae was not interested because she believes once a c-section always a c-section. I found a new one,older male hoping he would support it but he does not. He says if I did not dialate then I will not dialate again. My water broke but I did not dialate and the gynae felt the baby would be distressed if we waited any longer.

I am in Pretoria and have been looking for a midwife and found out about the active birth unit last week so I am sure to try them although I am a bit sceptical becasue I did not enjoy my hospital stay at Femina with my first pregnancy.
I have not explored the homebirth option. I first need to determine if I am in a position to attempt a VBAC.

Any advice Lia?

Regards

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